What to write on a tea party birthday invitation

The card already reads “You’re invited to a Tea Party!” and has blanks for For, Date, Time, Where and RSVP. For the back of the card, the text you send with it or a digital invite, here are three ways to word it — swap in the bracketed details. Hats, gloves and party dresses are the classic tea-party dress code, and guests can bring a favorite stuffed animal for its own seat.

Classic

Please join us for tea!
[Name] is turning [age] — join us for a birthday tea party.
[date], [time] to [end time]
[address]
Hats and gloves encouraged; teddy bears welcome.
RSVP to [your name] at [phone] by [RSVP date]

Playful

Tea-rrific news: [Name] is turning [age]!
Pinkies up for tiny sandwiches and cake.
[date] · [time] to [end time] · [address]
Bring a teddy — every bear gets a seat.
RSVP by [RSVP date]: text [phone]

Drop-off or at a venue

Afternoon tea for [Name]
[Name] is [age]! Join us at [venue name], [address]
[date], [time] to [end time]
Dressing up encouraged.
RSVP to [your name] by [RSVP date] at [phone] — the tea room needs a final count.

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When to send it, and how

When to send them
2–6 weeks before the party. Two weeks is the floor for a casual party at home (L.A. Parent; PBS KIDS for Parents says 2–3 weeks). Paperless Post suggests a month, Evite says most parents send 4–6 weeks out, and for a party at a venue Paperless Post advises at least six weeks.
The RSVP date
At least five days before. Ask for replies at least five days before the party, and sooner if a venue needs a final head count (L.A. Parent). Two or three days out, call or text anyone who hasn’t answered (PBS KIDS for Parents).
Printing it
Half-letter or 5×7. The card is a 3:4 portrait (1,200 × 1,600 pixels). Print it half-letter, two to a US Letter sheet cut down the middle: each half is 5½ × 8½ inches, the card fills about 5½ × 7⅓, and it fits an A9 envelope. Or print one on 5×7 cardstock, where it fills about 5 × 6⅔ inches with a slim border and slips into an A7 envelope.

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Sources: L.A. Parent, PBS KIDS for Parents, Paperless Post, Evite, Emily Post Institute, Girl Scouts of the USA, Wikipedia, Shutterfly. Card sizes are measured from the printable itself.

Frequently asked questions

What should a tea party birthday invitation say?
Open with a line that sets the scene — “Tea-rrific news: [Name] is turning [age]!” — then give the essentials: your child’s name and age, the date, a start and an end time, the full address, and who to RSVP to by when. The printable already reads “You’re invited to a Tea Party!” across the top, with blanks for For, Date, Time, Where and RSVP, so a longer message fits on the back of the card or in the text you send with it.
When should I send tea party invitations?
2–6 weeks before the party. Two weeks is the floor for a casual party at home (L.A. Parent; PBS KIDS for Parents says 2–3 weeks). Paperless Post suggests a month, Evite says most parents send 4–6 weeks out, and for a party at a venue Paperless Post advises at least six weeks. Set the RSVP date at least five days before the party (L.A. Parent).
What should guests wear or bring to a tea party?
Hats, gloves and party dresses are the classic tea-party dress code, and guests can bring a favorite stuffed animal for its own seat. Naming the theme on the invitation tells families how to dress and what to bring (L.A. Parent). If it’s a drop-off party, say so plainly — “drop-off preferred” is the polite way to put it.
Can I send the tea party invitation by text?
Yes. The tea party invitation downloads as a picture, so it drops straight into a group text or an email — the same channels Paperless Post and Evite use for digital invitations. Type the date, time and address into the message too, so parents can copy them into a calendar. If you’re not inviting the whole class, send it to each family directly rather than posting it in the class-parent chat (Emily Post Institute; Girl Scouts of the USA).
What size should I print the tea party invitation?
Half-letter or 5×7. The card is a 3:4 portrait (1,200 × 1,600 pixels). Print it half-letter, two to a US Letter sheet cut down the middle: each half is 5½ × 8½ inches, the card fills about 5½ × 7⅓, and it fits an A9 envelope. Or print one on 5×7 cardstock, where it fills about 5 × 6⅔ inches with a slim border and slips into an A7 envelope. Ordinary printer paper works; cardstock holds up better in a backpack.