Every card here is laid out the same way: a themed headline across the top and five blanks underneath — For, Date, Time, Where and RSVP. Fill them in by hand, or type the details into the message you send with the picture. Each theme’s page adds three ready-to-copy wordings — a classic one, a playful one and one for a drop-off or venue party — and the basics below apply to every one of them.
- When to send them
- 2–6 weeks before the party. Two weeks is the floor for a casual party at home (L.A. Parent; PBS KIDS for Parents says 2–3 weeks). Paperless Post suggests a month, Evite says most parents send 4–6 weeks out, and for a party at a venue Paperless Post advises at least six weeks.
- The RSVP date
- At least five days before. Ask for replies at least five days before the party, and sooner if a venue needs a final head count (L.A. Parent). Two or three days out, call or text anyone who hasn’t answered (PBS KIDS for Parents).
- How many to invite
- Your child’s age plus one. The old rule of thumb still holds for a party of close friends (Emily Post Institute). The exception is a whole-class invitation.
- Invitations for the class
- The whole class, or hand them out privately. Many schools require the whole class to be invited if invitations go out at school (Girl Scouts of the USA). For a shorter list, send them to families directly — not in class, at a troop meeting or in the class group chat (Emily Post Institute; Girl Scouts of the USA). Etiquette experts quoted by L.A. Parent call inviting only the girls or only the boys a polite way to trim a class list, but never leave out just one or two kids.
- Printing it
- Half-letter or 5×7. The card is a 3:4 portrait (1,200 × 1,600 pixels). Print it half-letter, two to a US Letter sheet cut down the middle: each half is 5½ × 8½ inches, the card fills about 5½ × 7⅓, and it fits an A9 envelope. Or print one on 5×7 cardstock, where it fills about 5 × 6⅔ inches with a slim border and slips into an A7 envelope.
- Sending it digitally
- A group text or an email. The download is a picture, so it drops straight into a group text or an email — the same channels Paperless Post and Evite use for digital invitations. Type the date, time and address into the message too, so parents can copy them into a calendar, and post it in the class-parent chat only if the whole class is invited (Girl Scouts of the USA).
What every invitation needs
- Your child’s name — and the age they’re turning, if you like
- The date, a start time and an end time — an end time gets families there on time (L.A. Parent)
- The full address, plus parking or which-door notes if it’s tricky to find
- Who’s invited, including whether siblings are welcome (Evite)
- Drop-off or stay — “drop-off preferred” is the polite way to put it (L.A. Parent)
- What to wear or bring: a swimsuit and towel, a costume, sneakers
- How to RSVP and by when, with a name and a number that takes texts
- A line about gifts, if you’d rather guests skip them (L.A. Parent)
Sources: L.A. Parent, PBS KIDS for Parents, Paperless Post, Evite, Emily Post Institute, Girl Scouts of the USA, Wikipedia, Shutterfly. Card sizes are measured from the printable itself.








































